Avarda :(

So I bought this theme as I am fairly new to websites and can’t afford someone to build mine - or update it! This was recommened as I apparently can upload it to my wordpress easily and use it easily (I use it ona nother website I maintain for a group and love it but haven’t had to do it from the start!) -
Anyway I cannot get it to upload to my website for love nor money - I don’t have the $50US (71NZ) to pay - can anyone help please?

Talk to your host to extend the memory limit (even if you hired a freelancer you would probably need to do this first)

FYI - “I use it on another website” - not the same copy right? i.e. you bought two copies? Otherwise that would be breaking your license and could create other problems