Dating Sites - Compatibility Settings

I am considering buying either the WordPress theme Sweet Date or Seeko but first I want to know which compatibility settings are most customizable. I’d like to know two things.

Can the answers to one compatibility question be set to count for more points toward the compatibility statistics than other questions?

Can two answers to the same question be set to be compatible or half as compatible as an exact match?

If neither of these themes can do these things is there another dating theme that does?

Hi

Better to go to the theme page then theme Comments and post your query. theme author will be very happy to give your pre-purchase questions.

Thanks