Choosing the right BuddyPress Theme with Customizable Member Profiles

Hi there,

I am looking for a BuddyPress compatible theme for wordpress.org that allows me to customize the Profile Fields of members. I would like to change the information for member profiles and ideally, I would like to have the members able to chose if they want to share their information publicly or with friends only.

I found this link https://themeforest.net/category/wordpress/buddypress?compatible_with=BuddyPress&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmPPYBRCgARIsALOziAP9tXzWWC4c-ZjTHB_0qE0o9KAlzFyBQzYg7jQ0-fvYrElrviJjTqsaAsmrEALw_wcB&rating_min=3&referrer=search&utf8=✓&view=grid with a selection of BuddyPress compatible themes but I cant make out how much I can customize the Profile Fields…

Any comments or recommendations?

much appreciated

Antje