That would be a late-on soft reject, on the border of getting approved or denied… or possibly a soft/hard disable. It’s extremely rare you’ll have a real girl in front of you, waiting for a decision… if you’ve just met them.
I.e. the dating process would be the whole soft reject thing… multiple interactions and testing before a decision is made. In that case, the reviewers are going to write more than ‘a few words’. But if it’s a hard reject to start with, i.e. you sidle up to the bar next to a girl, she smiles at you, you smile back, but you have no attraction to her whatsoever… it’s never going to get to the point where she’s waiting for a decision. You swipe left simply by smiling, getting your drink and walking off.
I mean, if you’re walking down the street, do you stop every lady and tell them why you’re not attracted to them? I don’t. Not only because it would be weird and would probably come off as insulting and condescending, but from an efficiency point of view… it’s a bit of a waste of time to waste time on something or someone you’re not interested in. Sure, a lack of interest in someone can lead to interest, and even love as you get to know them… but asking everybody you meet out on a date, just in case it develops into love in the future, might not be the best approach.
That’s sounds cold and please don’t confuse that as me thinking that members of the opposite sex have no value other than in a romantic capacity. I have many female friends who add considerable value to my life in a whole host of aspects, the majority of which have nothing to do with romance or intimacy. My analogy applies only to ‘the dating game’ not to females or people in general. Investing time in somebody is rarely a waste, but there are times and places for that… as a business Envato don’t really have time to train and mentor people.
I can see why people think this might be a solid investment… if an item is borderline. But what about all the junk they must get on a daily basis that will probably never be approved? Surely you can agree that’s just a waste of time?
Maybe another example would be better… if you’re turning somebody down for a job, you’re going to send out a standard rejection letter. You’re not going to invite them in for a week long seminar on why they didn’t get the job.